FEBRUARY 18th, 2014
Yup, today is my birthday. 'Whaaaat", you say, "again?" No, wait a minute maybe that's not you saying that, maybe that's those voices in my head speaking to me and asking: "how does this keep happening, I swear I just had a birthday last year!"
My birthdays in the past were always a big deal...well for me they were anyway. It was practically a month long event. but that's probably because I come from a split family so we celebrated no a couple different dates.
Today, was just like any other day. I got the kids up, fed, dressed, lunches made, backpacks stuffed and off to meet the bus. Then I shoveled the driveway, did dishes, vacuumed, laundry'd, tended to my little four year olds needs, wants and temper tantrums, or at least I tried to anyway, then by about 2 I as contemplating what to make for dinner and so on. It was a typical day of endless chores, not fun at all, but it doesn't matter, because really there's no place I'd rather be. I have learned from the past too expect little and you will not be disappointed and even more importantly, too be grateful for all that you already do have!
It's a Tuesday, so my husband works a double shift today into tonight. He flies in at about 4 then flies back out again after grabbing his dinner-to-go that I've made for, but on the way home he stopped into Sobeys to get me a little cake and a card which he and the kids all signed, then we sat down, he lit the cake, they all sang happy birthday. And within seconds, I was back to feeding the kids and the dog dinner and he was flying out the door again off to his other job.
Now a days, I have so many other (more important) birthdays all around the same time as mine, that my day is not so much a big deal anymore. That and the fact that my husband and I don't have spare dime to spend on presents for each other, so it's just cards and a little cake.
I do appreciate all the many Facebook wishes I get from people, it kind of makes me feel a little special - so thank you to all of you for taking the time to send a quick wish in my direction, its nice to be able to connect with so many of you - sort of like a Facebook birthday party!